Remember that game from your 7th grade boy-girl parties? I figured in light of the recent election and some still very fresh wounds this would be a perfect game to play with regards to the passing of Prop 8. While I respect others views and beliefs on this issue I am still in awe that same sex marriage is such a hot political button. I for one am much more concerned about the economy, environment, war in Iraq and oh say what the hell is happening with my retirement and whether or not there will be any social security left for me. I mean really would you rather have a crack whore and pimp living next to you or a same sex couple? I'll take same sex couple. Would you rather your tax dollars be spent keeping school programs going or keeping same sex couples from getting married? I'll take school programs and I don't even have kids! Would you rather..oh I could go on and on and really this if fun but seriously it is fucked up.
Alex and I were on the fence about getting married for years, we figured if we were not having kids (which we aren't) why bother? Then after about 7 years together and approaching our 30s we started thinking about the what ifs...terminal illness, power of attorney, wills, financial planning, retirement and so on. I realize it's not very glamorous but it came down to that for us. Without a marriage certificate our families could challenge our choices and decisions regardless of the commitment we'd made to each other publicly or privately to share a life together. I realize there are any number of ways to interpret marriage, but frankly that whole Bible thing is getting a little old and well Columbus thought the world was flat so it we'd listened to him all these years the entire human population would be crammed into 1/2 of the earth and how sucktastic would that be? Gays & lesbians are contributing members of society; they are teachers, doctors, bankers, lawyers, civil servants, people just like everyone else and deserve the same rights.
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